Jan 26, 2007

thursday night

i've just realized that i haven't given "him" a name here yet; i've always referred to him as "him". so, i'm calling him "piggy" MUAHAHAHAA i know he reads this blog (i read his regularly too) and i know he's gonna hate me for calling him that, but... i really don't know what else to call u :)

so thursday night it was supposed to be tv night -- ugly betty and grey's anatomy -- but i found out there was no ugly betty so i thought may be me and piggy should only have dinner instead. dinner, one-on-one, i thought, would give us a chance to learn to talk to each other casually as friends, cuz we've never done that before.

however, as i was napping that afternoon (that was the afternoon i wrote the "encouragement" post, so yeah, didn't go to gym.... MB convinced me, i blame him), piggy called and said that dinner plan had changed -- let's add on about 8 of his friends.... o_O

i knew i was in trouble right away -- i used to be bored and left out enough when me and him were bfs, now i was gonna sit at a table with him and 8 of his friends, all speaking fast mandarin. yeah, i guess i'll just sit there and... sit there.

i always say, "give ppl a chance, and they'll surprise u." piggy did. shortly after ordering, he switched seats to sit across from me. his friend who switched seat with him asked why but he didn't say why. and then his friend looked at me and smiled, and i smiled too. for the rest of the dinner, he talked to me a few times, and i talked to him a few times. i even joined in on a big conversation about "how sperm sample is taken at a clinic" lol (someone said using a needle is better than the "natural" way.... OUCH!)

so all and all it was a good night. i thought i would have to sit there and rot, but he didn't let that happen.

just thought i would write about that night. no punch line at the end or anything ^_^



4 comments:

Lin said...

we will go out dinner one-on-one later sometime ^^

Anonymous said...

Changing from lover to friend is not easy, but time will change everything.

Anonymous said...

Changing from lover to friend is not easy, but time will change everything.
You should forgive and forget.

David

justin said...

to 小林:

we could do a thursday nite dinner and tv thing :)