neurotic!!

some ppl can become quite neurotic when they have started to fall for a person and r afraid of losing or being rejected by that person....

they want everything done for, said to and seen by that person in a picture-perfect way worthy of an oscar. and god forbid if u, as the outsider or third wheeler, said or even only joked about "love" (if neither one of them has said it yet), or "moving in", or "past bfs".

i never made these mistakes before. but i happened to have joked about "being needy" very recently infront of a new couple -- one of the two is a friend of mine who became an annoyed friend of mine.

yup, he was annoyed at me when i joked (JOKED!) that he was "needy". i don't think his bf took it seriously. but for my friend, that was apparently me throwing an armageddon at the whole thing.

i can understand what he's going through. i've been through it myself. when u finally find something good, u want to keep it around. and to keep it around, u have to carefully work for it. and when u finally find something REALLY good and awesome, then hear a friend say something that u think might jeopardize everything, u pull out the silent treatment at ur friend, tell him to shut up, stay away, and say good-bye to everyone standing around him but not him.

i SOOO understand.

^_^