a public service annoucement

so on downelink, a recently out and experiencing-it-all guy expressed that it seems to be so easy for straight ppl to find a steady partner but gay ppl can't.

this is what i had to say:

it's harder for us cuz 1) statistically there'r more of them 2) it's easier for them to just run into each other (on the street, at school, etc) 3) most of them have been practicing dating/communicating and all that stuff since 12 or 13 of age, and we usually start late, or very late, so we lack communication skills and already old enough to have sex. lacking communication skills and being able to freely have sex (since we're all guys and of age), u put two guys together they communicate with their dicks first. and after that, they lack the skills to communicate through their heads/mouth. one night stands and one-month datings are created this way.

is it easy for me? no. it is not easy for anyone who wants to have a long term relationship, straight or gay. straight ppl might have more of them in a series only because they can find a partner easier. but they don't stay together very successfully as well. divorce rate last yr or two yrs ago was 1/2 in the states and 1/3 in canada. so pls don't fall into the sad and self-defeat thinking that gay ppl can't and don't want long term relationships. all of my friends want them, and i want one and ready for one. it's just hard to find chemistry and compatibility.

anyone agree?