it's been an interesting weekend filled with interesting events that i don't even know if i should write here. no it's not sex lol that's not too interesting at all. but it's sunday night now and i'm just tired, so i'm not gonna write about this weekend until tomorrow :p
but here's a short piece that i can write about -- recently, i've been asking myself, "what do i have to offer in a relationship?"
laughter? i don't know if i'm that funny of a guy. i'm not boring and i do say funny stuff, but am i so funny enough that it can be a strong point?
little sweet things? i'm not careless and i'm not inattentive, but i'm a little lazy sometimes :p
but at the same time, i guess i do have a few things to offer that aren't bad...
i give good affection :) i'm not cold when i'm with a guy. i'll say nice things; i'll kiss the guy. i do lots of hugs and cuddles.
i like communicating :) everything should be talked about openly with an open mind. feelings, past events, concerns, etc. i can do that pretty well.
i can stay in as well as go out :) i'm not one of the extreme types - either out there every weekend or staying in every weekend. i know how to strike a balance between social time and private time.
the question itself -- "what do i have to offer?" -- is still relatively new in my head, so i haven't really figured out anything extensive yet. but i really should try to think more about it because this has to do with the bigger picture in life. i should know my weaknesses and strengths.
that's me
- justin
- about me about me... born in hk, been living in canada for 13yrs. i find it funny that i speak both cantonese, my first language, and english, my second language, with an accent. i also speak a little mandarian, but apparently i sound like a child when i do.... i've been in college/university for a bit. got my BA in PSYC. but before i go back to school again i'm just a freelance painter :) very open-minded and live just as open-mindedly. i used to be shy, but nowadays.. well, i'm not young enough to be cute with being shy anymore lol but seriously, talking to ppl is way more fun than just observing other ppl do it :) so these r some of the stuff about me, if u read my blog every now and then, u'll find out more :)
4 comments:
It's always good of thinking yourself over, to know about advantage and dis, to figure out what you'd better do in the future, to clarify the throught of a special period.....above all of these, we can go ahead and improve....
BTW, from today's conversation, at least the conclusion is you are a sunny ppl with good manner and kindness.....
to kevin:
awww thx :)
but did u mean sunny or funny?
HA. i like the way you think.
while the majority of fags spin great expectations about the type of person they want, they often forget what is it they have to offer.
the usual "criteria" asian fags want in a "bf" is the same generic qualities everyone wants, no? "good-looking" "hot body" "is a xxx" "making xxx" "xxx" "xxx" "xxx" "xxx" and "xxx."
tragically, this is where asian fags fall short. literally. cuz what they want and what they offer are at two different ends of the spectrum lah. ;)
dp
to dp:
wow, dp, two "different ends". it almost sounds like u think asian "fags" is not "good looking" and don't have "good body".
but anyways, yeah, i spent yrs thinking what i want from a bf but never thought about what i have to offer till recently.
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